Post by LockeWlf on Oct 26, 2006 7:01:10 GMT -5
this is just a little post from me about some of the things i've noticed from courting wolves. if you think i'm wrong, feel free and post your own advice
5 things to remember-
1. Don't jump at the first wink you get.
Your new to the pack! great! you've barely have a week under your belt and suddenly you get a wink and a smile from the alpha and know in your heart she wants your hot body.
Easy there tiger.
Just because a wolf is nice to you, does not mean they would make a suitable mate for you. Take some time and get to know the wolf first before you make your attempts at thier heart. who knows, you might find a good friend instead of a lover.
2. No Means No.
It sounds so simple, but in the culture of america we tend to have the problem of not knowing when to quit. If someone doesn't want to be your mate, so be it. there are plenty of wolves in the sea for you Tiger, and you'll find one soon enough.
3. Time is the simplest gift.
i know it is wierd, but the more time you spend with someone, the better you get to know them. If you are seriously considering a potential mate try and spend as much time with them as possible. Who knows, your prince/ess might turn out to be an orc in disguise!
4. Gifts!
Everyone loves gifts! but getting a gift that suits the wolf is as important as having a gift itself. Get to know the likes and dislikes of your potential mate so you don't bring them a batch of delicious berries that they are allergic to.
5. Trust and Sincerity
The most important lesson for any eager wolf to remember is the important of Trust and Sincerity in a relationship. Taking a mate isn't a minor event in a wolf's life, as such it takes an incredible amount of trust in order to take the plunge. Sincerity is one of the simplest method to gain trust, as telling the truth is always appreciated, even if it is a bit hurtful at times.
Well, hope you enjoyed this little primer, i'll probably delete it later once my sleep deprived brain realizes just how horrid it turned out.
5 things to remember-
1. Don't jump at the first wink you get.
Your new to the pack! great! you've barely have a week under your belt and suddenly you get a wink and a smile from the alpha and know in your heart she wants your hot body.
Easy there tiger.
Just because a wolf is nice to you, does not mean they would make a suitable mate for you. Take some time and get to know the wolf first before you make your attempts at thier heart. who knows, you might find a good friend instead of a lover.
2. No Means No.
It sounds so simple, but in the culture of america we tend to have the problem of not knowing when to quit. If someone doesn't want to be your mate, so be it. there are plenty of wolves in the sea for you Tiger, and you'll find one soon enough.
3. Time is the simplest gift.
i know it is wierd, but the more time you spend with someone, the better you get to know them. If you are seriously considering a potential mate try and spend as much time with them as possible. Who knows, your prince/ess might turn out to be an orc in disguise!
4. Gifts!
Everyone loves gifts! but getting a gift that suits the wolf is as important as having a gift itself. Get to know the likes and dislikes of your potential mate so you don't bring them a batch of delicious berries that they are allergic to.
5. Trust and Sincerity
The most important lesson for any eager wolf to remember is the important of Trust and Sincerity in a relationship. Taking a mate isn't a minor event in a wolf's life, as such it takes an incredible amount of trust in order to take the plunge. Sincerity is one of the simplest method to gain trust, as telling the truth is always appreciated, even if it is a bit hurtful at times.
Well, hope you enjoyed this little primer, i'll probably delete it later once my sleep deprived brain realizes just how horrid it turned out.